9.29.2011

The {Guest} Post About Photographing Your Favorite People and Places

My rabbit guester today is Liz Thomas from Liz Thomas Photography. Liz and I go way back. Like bighairandscrunchiesandhypercolorshirts back. My first memory of Liz has her surrounded by paper and photographs in the yearbook room at my high school. I remember thinking "She has such a big personality to be so little. I like her." Petite Liz and I lost touch after graduation despite what we promised to each other in that yearbook we designed. However, Mark Zuckerberg saved the day and we've reconnected. Now I think "She has such a gorgeous portfolio to be so little." Let's see what petite Liz can teach us.


Jamie was crazy enough to invite me write a guest post, and I was thrilled, because I love Jamie and all her rabbits. We knew each other long ago in school, and to be back in the presence of Jamie's wit via Facebook and her blog...well...it just makes life better, doesn't it?

So here goes...a tutorial of sorts.

Capturing something real is what I live for (professionally speaking).

Recently, I photographed a wedding and the comments that sent me over the moon were about the bride's dad. "We couldn't believe how he smiled." "We haven't seen him like that in years." "That's the man I married." Whoa!

Was it my rockin' personality and fantabulous shooting skills? Let me assure you - not!

How does it happen? And, how can you take photos that make you feel something...something real?

Photography has been a gift. It's taken me to faraway places, introduced me to people I might never know, and shown me a world I would not see otherwise.
Whether its travel, weddings, families, or police officers (uh-huh!), some things are always the same. People are people. Learn to anticipate.

Here's what I mean:
Say you're at your cousin's wedding. Your uncle is dancing with his daughter, the bride. You snap off a few. They're pretty good, if you say so yourself. As you turn to walk away, the song wraps up and you hear "awww...ahhhh..." No surprise, right? But you missed it...the real moment.
Nine times out of 10, if a bride dances with her dad, he will kiss her or hug her tightly - so very sweetly - when the music stops.

And if you're ready, you'll capture something...something real.
Wait for the moment and don't stop shooting, just in case the moment goes flying by you! You can't create a moment like that, you can only be there when it happens.
This high school senior wanted her childlike spirit captured. She recognized the childhood chapter of her book is closing.
Learning to anticipate was not an accident. And, it didn't start with photography. Since I was a kid, I wanted to be a writer and tell stories. About people.

When I was in college, I worked as a public relations photographer. I will never forget a meeting with our editor before a college event saying, "the president played football in college, and he still looks like a line backer. Whatever you do, don't shoot him from the backside. And he always makes a telling expression when he says 'such and such'- get it!" We learned to watch and wait. We were shooting film on manual cameras- you had to get it right.

My boys are infamous for their big mouths- literally and figuratively:
Everyone has an expression, a gesture, a look that screams a part of who they are. Grab that moment!
That's how I approach most everything I shoot. A writer asks about details and weaves a story connecting those details. It's the same with photos that stir you. They tell a story and show you provoking details without a word. With an article, readers want to know the who, what, when, where, why or how?

A photo can tell the same story.
So ask yourself, whether it's a family event, an aging parent, a wild toddler or a trip to Six Flags: what's the story here? what do I want to remember about the place? the person? the day? this moment?

My grandmother loves puzzles. My boys love puzzles. Lucky me, they decided to share the task of putting one together. I grabbed a camera.
I could've said, "hey everybody look at me. Let's take a picture of you with the puzzle." I bet 5 million dollars that two out of three would not have looked at me or smiled. What I wanted to remember was the story. It's not just the moment, it's the angle and the details. Notice below, the angle changed depending on the detail.

So what can you do? Aim for three shots:
1) The Place: Set the scene. This is the where and the who. By looking at the images of my granny, I will remember in which room we were. I will remember my grandmother had fallen a few days before and still wore the bruise on her jaw. I will remember which hands belonged to whom.

2) The Moment: This is closer, is shot from an angle that says who and what.

3) The Details: This is close. I wanted to remember the contrast of the hands - the wrinkled ones and the not-wrinkled ones. I wanted to even remember the puzzle since my boys loves learning states and capitals.

Maybe you just have your phone or a point-and-shoot. It's even more important to anticipate. You know how long your camera may take to respond, so plan for it. Start snapping just before the moment and you should actually capture it.

My friends just adopted a little girl from Ethiopia. What happens at a homecoming? Husbands and wives, mothers and children, all make a beeline to embrace!
So here's what you can do at such an occasion:
1) Survey your surroundings, find good light, take pictures from different angles (especially if you have a fully-automatic camera, because this will affect the lighting of your photo.)

2) Find the important players, even the folks who don't think they need their picture made. There will come a day when someone will cherish that real-life image of them!

3) Think of the story you want to tell. If it's a family reunion, it's not people eating that you want to capture. Sure, take photos of the spread of food, just not people eating! :)

4) Find the emotion Whose moment is this? Who's going to react?

5) Anticipate how the events will unfold.

6) Get in position and wait...

We were in the airport and I wanted the viewer to know that.

Mommy had been gone...little sister was coming...brother was anxious...

Dad would be anxious, too, as would a host of other people. Where would I be to capture this? Sometimes, all you have to do is turn around and your moment is waiting for you!

Brother meets sister for the first time.

Mom, Dad and brother are proud. Relieved the journey was behind them... (keep shooting!)

You can see more of these moments here.

Maybe it's a place you want to document like your childhood home. Ask yourself:

1) What do I remember about this place? the kitchen, my bedroom, the carpet color

2) Who is special here? Where do I have the most memories of that person?

And, get several angles of the outside of the house.
I'll leave you with a project I photographed this summer. A grandmother's legacy of more than 200 quilts.
You can see more of that story here.

I hope you've found something in this post to help you document your favorite people and places! Please drop me a note. I'd love to see what you're working on! liz@lizthomasphotography.com

Time to stalk Liz. Subscribe to her blog. Like her on Facebook. Follow her on Twitter.

Question from Jamie: What's captured in one of your most treasured photographs? I'll go first in the comments.

{images: Liz Thomas Photography}

9.28.2011

The Post About Unnecessary Random Rabbits

When I planned to go on vacation, I had these lofty plans of posting archived posts for you to read that would cover the following:
But leaving Alabama for 9 days requires some evening work. 

Tasks such as:
  • get ahead at day job
  • pack
  • camp out on YouTube to avoid packing
  • make airplane playlists
  • buy new music from Lady Antebellum, Ben Rector, Shane & Shane, needtobreathe to add to airplane playlists
  • return unworn clothes to Old Navy to recoup money spent on new music
  • clean house
Rabbit Sidebar: I paid my mother in Hobby Lobby cash to clean my house before my housesitter moved in. Before Mom arrived, I cleaned the house. Why do we do that? We're filthy animals and people probably know. Why must we try to trick them?

So no archived posts. But if you type "hooter hider" into the search engine on the right of my Rabbits page, you'll be entertained. Money back guarantee.

Unrelated question: What television show should I be watching right now? 

I'll go first in the comments.

{image: manipulated by Jamie}

9.27.2011

The Post About Rabbits in the Sand

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I traveled to Hawaii.

I came back. 

Reluctantly.

The blog is minty fresh tomorrow.

{image: Jamie - Chinaman's Hat Beach in Oahu}

9.19.2011

The Post About Aloha and Aloha

 
I'm away from home this week. Far away.

I know it's far because 14 hours in airports and a middle seat on a 777 tells me so.

If you'd like to keep up with me while I'm in my current favorite state of Hawaii, then consider these as places to loiter.

Twitter: @jamiesrabbits

Instagram: jamiesrabbits

Foursquare: jamiesrabbits

I'll be updating multiple times a day. 

I'll be eating Hawaiian shaved ice at the same frequency. 

Question for you: Where are you headed on your next vacation?

{image: Jamie - who says you need anything more than an iPhone on vacation?}

9.14.2011

The {Guest} Post About Birmingham v. Portland

Today's guest blogger hails from Oregon. More on that pesky fact in a second. 

Ben Emerson, from The Whole Dang Thing, is one of my favorite writers, both for the words and for the subject of the words. Ben is blogging his way through the Bible, one chapter at a time. 

Don't be scared. Ben manages to tackle a monstrous task and make it insightful and more often than not - quite comical. I read his blog every day...even when I forget to read the actual Bible. Ben probably does not endorse this practice.

Today, Ben throws down a gauntlet. It's time for you and me to represent.
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Here is the deal folks: Jamie hails from Birmingham, Alabama. Yours truly resides in (an hour and a half south of) Portland, Oregon.

Now, I am sure all Birminghammers consider their fair city to be the crown-jewel of the South. Fair enough. Portlandians think the same of Portland, except for the Northwest.

But the time has come to settle the score. Which city is actually better? I recently ran a few simulations and scenarios to figure out which one was better.* I chose a few important categories for the cities to go head to head in. The winner of the most categories claims the title of “Greatest City in like, Ever!”

Location:

Birmingham: Having never been to Alabama I can only assume it is a humid sweet tea-infested wasteland. The wiki page speaks of “mountains” and “diverse river ecosystems” but it is probably lying.

Portland: Mt. Hood. The Willamette and Columbia rivers. Evergreen Trees. Maybe a week of humidity per year. Yeah, there is a lot of rain, but 17 inches less than Birmingham!

Advantage: Portland

Skyline:

Birmingham:
 
Portland:

Advantage: Do I even need to say it? Portland by a mile.

Culture Sports:

Birmingham: I hear there is a small, liberal arts college in town that has an ok football team that I am pretty sure didn't win the national championship against a school in Oregon that happens to be my alma mater.

Portland: NBA (Trailblazers), MLS (Timbers), and a sort of Hockey team. Let's face it, we aren't going to have a championship for a while.

Advantage: I am very disappointed, but Birmingham. GO DUCKS!!!!

History:

Birmingham: It was pretty much the flashpoint for much of the civil rights movement. Dr. King was put in jail there and wrote his famous letters, a church was bombed, and there was a bunch or marches and sit-ins.

Portland: I don't know. There were a bunch of tall trees. People cut them down and lived in the stumps and drank coffee. Also it is the birthplace of hipsters. Come on! How do you compete with the civil rights movement?!

Advantage: Birmingham

are you ready for the tiebreaker?

Do I Live there?

Birmingham: Nope

Portland: Technically I don't but I am pretty darn close.

Advantage: Portland!

And the winner, by a margin of 3-2 is . . . PORTLAND!!!!

There you have it folks. Undeniable proof that Portland is the superior city. If you ever want to come visit, let me know. I will hook you up sucka!!!

What is your favorite city in the USA? Which one are you just dying to visit?

*by "ran a few simulations" I mean, "skimmed the wikipedia page."
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Ben Emerson lives in (near) beautiful Portland, Oregon. He works with InterVarsity Christian Fellowship at Oregon State University. You can follow along with his blog, The Whole Dang Thing, as he works his way through the whole Bible. You can also follow him on twitter or like his blog on facebook. Do it NOW!!!

9.12.2011

The Post About How a Southern Accent May Be Overrated

I'm really not a fan of video blogs. Watching them or recording them or watching them after I have recorded them. 

Blech.

However, two readers made a request and I was inspired by another.

This video also serves as evidence that I chase rabbits no matter the method of communication.

Prologue: I took a public speaking class in college and I was consistently graded low for smacking lips and falling into the occasional lisp. 

Sometimes lessons are never really learned. My apologies.

Aunt, Route, Wash, Oil, Theater, Iron, Salmon, Caramel, Fire, Water, Sure, Data, Ruin, Crayon, Toilet, New Orleans, Pecan, Both, Again, Probably, Spitting image, Alabama, Lawyer, Coupon, Mayonnaise, Syrup, Pajamas, Caught
  1. What is it called when you throw toilet paper on a house?
  2. What is the bug that when you touch it, it curls into a ball?
  3. What is the bubbly carbonated drink called?
  4. What do you call gym shoes?
  5. What do you say to address a group of people?
  6. What do you call the kind of spider that has an oval-shaped body & extremely long legs?
  7. What do you call your grandparents?
  8. What do you call the wheeled contraption in which you carry groceries at the supermarket?
  9. What do you call it when rain falls while the sun is shining?
  10. What is the thing you change the TV channel with?
Visit Shannon at Shannanigans to hear her Accent Vlog. Feel free to fast forward to 00:47 to hear her pronounce "water" the way I will now be pronouncing "water." 

How would you answer the above questions?

9.11.2011

The Post About the 10th Anniversary of 9/11

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"I have been asked on hundreds of times in my life why God allows tragedy and suffering. I have to confess that I really do not know the answer totally, even to my own satisfaction. I have to accept, by faith, that God is sovereign, and He is a God of love and mercy and compassion in the midst of suffering. The Bible says God is not the author of evil. The Old Testament prophet Jeremiah said, 'The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it?' He asked that question, 'Who can understand it?' And that is one reason we each need God in our lives.

This event reminds us of the brevity and the uncertainty of life. We never know when we too will be called into eternity. I doubt if even one of those people who got on those planes, or walked into the World Trade Center or the Pentagon last Tuesday morning thought it would be the last day of their lives. It didn't occur to them. And that's why each of us needs to face our own spiritual need and commit ourselves to God and His will now."

Reverend Billy Graham, National Day of Prayer & Remembrance, September 14, 2001  

{image: Scott Blake via CC} 

9.09.2011

The Post About The 5 Most Played Songs

Do you find yourself married to a select group of songs? I do. 

See what I did there?

Although there are 3500+ tracks in my music library, I seem to always land on the same 100 or so. iTunes will speak to the heart of that weird habit by automatically filling up a playlist for me called "Top 25 Most Played."

Anytime I click on that playlist, I always react the same way as if it's the first time I've seen those songs in years rather than 21 minutes earlier. Giddy.

Here's my own Top 5:

1. Halfway Home – Jason Mraz

Cute guy. Songwriter. Guitar. All in.

2. Turning Tables – Adele

Long time Adele fan and I've already recommended her newest album, 21, along with the rest of the planet. This was the track that owned me after only one listen. Still owns me 127 listens later.

3. Speaking a Dead Language – Joy Williams

I fancied Joy when she was 19 and blonde and crowned a Christian pop princess. I fancy her now at 29 and brunette and 1/2 of The Civil Wars. This song is for that moment when you need to just sit and wallow in it. Whatever it may be. 

4. Orphans, Kingdoms – Brooke Fraser

My favorite baby born at Hillsong. "In me, in you. Orphans, kingdoms." No truer statement.

5. No Day But Today – Idina Menzel

The 1st show I ever saw on Broadway was Rent. Front row and falling. Idina Menzel played Maureen in the original cast and was nominated for a Tony. (You may know her as Rachel's mom on Glee.) She performed this unique arrangement of Rent's "Another Day" during a PBS Soundstage event at the Lincoln Center in 2008.

Since I found $5.25 in my washer this morning, I can buy a little music. So answer me this...

What song or songs might we find in your most played list?

Thank you to Michelle at This Time Around for inspiring/letting me steal this post idea.

9.07.2011

The {Guest} Post About Making Lemonade Out of Infertility

Today's guest rabbit chaser is Lisa from While I Am Waiting. Here's the short list on Lisa:
1. She grew up in Alaska and would ice skate and sled during recess.
2. She moved to Alabama for college and now wears flip flops year round.
3. As a kid, she had a favorite blanket she'd dress up in baby doll clothes and jewelry.
4. She moved to Alabama for college and now this story seems less bizarre.
5. She's one of my top 5 favorite coworkers.

Lisa writes a poignant blog about the process of growing her family while navigating infertility, miscarriage and now adoption. I've never met anyone who's faced changes in a life's itinerary with as much grace and faith as Lisa. 

She could have shared something meaningful and life-changing in this guest post, but since that's not really what we do here...we'll with go embarrassing.
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I grew up in a conservative household and have been modest my whole life. I never talked about private or personal matters, but you would never guess it now.

You know what changed me? Infertility. 

It is full of all types of embarrassing situations you just have to laugh about. Dealing with infertility has led me to lose my “appropriateness” filters and sense of modesty. I laugh when women complain about going to their annual gynecologist appointment…are you kidding me? I had to pull down my pants for a million different doctors, nurses, and ultrasound techs…sometimes daily. Don’t complain about doing it once a year.

What else is embarrassing about dealing with infertility?

1. The sample room. It's a closet sized room housing a recliner (with sterile covering), a sink (with a basket of sample cups nearby), a light (with dimmer switch) and an optional basket of dirty magazines. It's where the man goes in to deposit his “sample” which could be for a semen analysis, intrauterine insemination (IUI) or other reasons. You have many opportunities to visit the sample room. Everyone knows what goes on in there. It’s in the middle of the doctor’s office. There is a sign on the door that says “quiet please” yet you hear every little thing going on outside the door. It’s sterile and probably the least romantic place you could imagine (except for the mood lighting). There is also the pressure to finish the job you're there to do. Once the weirdness of that is out of the way, you have to walk out with your sample and walk it down the hall in front of what seems like the whole world. The first time is mortifying, but after that it’s a piece of cake. You learn to be proud of your husband’s little swimmers. And maybe, just maybe you look at them under the microscope, videotape them and post the video on YouTube.

Not that we ever did that.

2. A doctor once told me I had beautiful cervical mucus. In the infertility world, this is a compliment and cause for celebration.

3. The questions you never thought you'd be asked.
  • How big are your follicles?
  • How high is your husband’s semen count?
  • How exactly does insemination work?
  • Have you tried standing on your head to help the sperm swim to where they need to go?
Embarrassing topics to talk about, but now I proudly share the specifics and take strange pleasure in seeing people’s faces turn bright red as I do so.

Cruel, maybe. Entertaining, definitely.

One guy once asked my husband if it wouldn't be better to keep a bucket at home in the freezer with “specimen" so when we had the insemination they could use a whole bucket instead of only a small sample given at the doctor’s office. Umm...thanks for the suggestion.

4. The refrigerator repairman once had to handle my refrigerated fertility medication that read “For Vaginal Use Only” in big letters on the box. My reaction? Blog about it.

That's just a small sample of the potentially embarrassing life of an infertile. Hopefully, I didn’t make you too uncomfortable as you read this post.

If I did, I'm bummed I didn’t get to see your face turn red.

What's happened in your life that you should be embarrassed about but you just aren’t?

Jamie's P.S. Don't forget to read and subscribe to Lisa's incredible blog. No regrets. Pinky swears. 

{image: Lisa Williams}

9.06.2011

The Post About My Parents' Kryptonite

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These two are winsome and wise. Combined, they have more than 80 years in the workforce and 40 years as parents. They know a thing or two about almost everything.

It's not their first time at most rodeos.

However, like every great superhero, there is a vulnerability. An Achilles' heel that, if left unchecked, will eventually be their downfall.

The Internet.

Exhibit A Conversation:
Mom: I've opened a Facebook account so I can know what's going on with the family since that's how everyone seems to communicate. 
Me: Great! I bet you'll love it!
Mom: However, I've opened my account as your father, so look for a friend request from Charles Golden.
Me: Why didn't you create your own profile?
Mom: I just don't think it's safe on social media for a woman by herself.

Exhibit B Conversation:
While showing him funny things on the web via my iPhone...
Dad: (chuckling to himself) I saw a link for a hilarious vacation message used on someone's work email.
Me: Really! How fun! What did it say?
Dad: I don't remember.
---------pause----------
Me: That was an amazing story Dad. You should tell that at parties.
Dad: (grumpy face) Well, I thought you could look it up on that piece of junk phone of yours.
Me: My bad.

What's your kryptonite? Is there anything you try, but can't seem to master?

I'll confess first in the comments.

{image: Jamie}

9.05.2011

The Post About The Rabbit Recommends v.99

Each week or so I post a readable or watchable and/or a listenable of which I'm fond. You can choose what happens after my recommendation. Ignore, embrace, debate.

Earlier volumes of The Rabbit Recommends can be found here.

Labor Day Edition: Wikipedia tells us Labor Day is a federal holiday celebrating the economic and social contributions of workers. Although, most of those who work retail, food service, transit or at hospitals will have to celebrate at work. I'll sleep an extra hour (on top of the 9) in your honor. The following are recommendations for those who work hard for the money.

Read
Do you know where I excel in the hierarchy of an organization? The middle. At the front line, I'm grumpy about having no input on my desk chair. At the top, I crumble under the pressure of having to supervise...anyone. A qualified therapist would tell me my inability to be a boss stems from being a latchkey key who only had to make an after school snack for herself. Enter one of my favorite leadership books: The 360ยบ Leader by John Maxwell. I have a John Maxwell crush which is similar to my Michael Hyatt crush which is not similar to my Matt Damon crush. This great read first addresses 7 myths we often believe about leadership such as "I can't lead if I'm not at the top." Maxwell then outlines 23 principles on leading up, across and down. Hence, the circle of life.

Watch
There are outstanding workplace movies: Office Space, Devil Wears Prada, Clerks, Working Girl, Anchorman.

There are outstanding workplace TV shows: Mad Men, West Wing, 30 Rock, Sports Night and of course, The Office.

Although I'm as much a fan of the original UK version AND I feel the current version has lost a bit of its way, I'll never adore a clip as much as this one.

What are your favorite fictional workplaces?

9.01.2011

The Post About Loving Where You're Planted

Birmingham, Alabama This is where I live.

Not the park. Although I'm not above it, if push came to shove.

This is Birmingham, Alabama.

And I love her.

A few reasons why:
1. Giving. Birmingham ranks as the most generous city in America, according to a study that measured 60 metropolitan areas in terms of percentage of household income given to charity. I feel that as an employee of a local nonprofit and as a walker through doors held open for me almost 100% of the time.

2. Feta. I think "Birmingham" means "go to there and cook" in Greek because they have done just that. I can name at least 12 Greek restaurants in the metro area that will floor you from the deliciousness. Contact me and we'll break pita together and be better for it.

3. Books. The stereotype does not survive - we're quite literate. Local shops like Alabama Booksmith, Little Professor, and Jim Reed Books, make reading the most divine task. I'm particularly a fan of 2nd & Charles, a used bookstore. It's the newest brainchild of Books-A-Million, which maintains its headquarters here in the 'ham.

What about you? Where do you live and why do you fancy it? 

Be warned: I might show up.

{image: Jamie}
 
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